yea set rules and put in consequences we can control. thanks for sharing those tips

Very interesting but very true thoughts my dear thanks for sharing

That’s a common habit among kids, not having zeal to do stuffs or easily agree with an adult, but when it comes to an extreme, it becomes something else. Yes giving them back the consequences we laid out earlier will make them sit up and have fear than letting them go free easily!

I need to learn my children are now teenagers their power don dey pass my power still watching

You are right sis! Children thrive in love and we all need to be patient with them.

That is true,lots of Patience is really what we need.Even though that sometimes we might be pushed so much to the wall and then we loose it but we pray for being more patient with our children

I really love the graphics you used to illustrate points. I used to have a strong-willed child! Hmmm. So different. So moody. I used to pray God please turn all this energy into positivity. Now this child is a teenager, you wont believe its thr same child. This child is the most sensitive and caring child and very helpful. Of course, like you said, as a child it was tough for me but I pumped more love and prayers into the child. Sometimes I gist about the past and this child cant believe most of what happened. So you are right. Patience. No need for too much arguing. Prayers. Bonding time. This is such an important topic and thanks for sharing it.

Hi dear sister! Love you sister! This is a very wonderful and so very practical and needed at this time I love ️ that you teach the truth that children thrive on love! And a love of patience! And may God help all us parents to love better each and every moment. God bless you dear sister! And your family!

when was a child that is me cry alot always want to make decisions myself some children are so mean. Yeah go arrange the room to bring kids up is not easy oooh but with God wisdom is very easy

These tips sound effectivie. Handling defiant children is a tough one. Following through is the one thing that most parents need to really improve on. No need making a rule without following through. I learnt a lot

My dear I ave seen them uncountable times at the super market and I was like chai! Why can't she pity her mom? Now you ave cleared the suffocating air for me to breath well and understand them well.Thank you Sis.May God enrich you more.

Fantastic tips, my hubby is good at telling my kids if you don't do the dishes/tidy up your room, no carton for you girls today.

This is very important tips and I believe we parents want to control the children all the time. There are times we should allow them make their choices and tell them the consequences that follows. These are wonderful tips. Thanks sis

is not easy but God will always give every parent grace to handle their teenagers

This was a very powerful Teaching yes, that's exactly how I do to my kids, you know those here have many different opportunities to enjoy that if you don't take care your kids will get spoilt and overcome you, so the only way is to punish them with what they love the most, thanks so much for this Beautiful Teaching Sis

very useful tips

Great sharing my friend