I feel so bad for these girls, everything is soooo superficial with them, no self actualization at all. When they start approaching 40 they’re going to be plagued with feelings of emptiness.

She doesn’t even physically meet the aesthetic she’s demanding around her. This is embarrassing

You know what's crazy, regular girls out here having fun and being loved..... because we are loving. Treat people how you want to be treated. Not treat people how you were treated Erica, and this is why they are lonely.

all I'm saying is, fun should be about enjoying not about validation amd clout 🏾

Without shaming her looks..because if we are being honest, even with her work, she's not traditionally beautiful..but in the urban market she checks alot of boxes..that aside, does she know how many tables she'll never sit at let alone be made aware of due to her aesthetic? Does she know how limiting in life her aesthetic will be for her? She's locked in on in and very committed and the world is far more fickle and so much bigger than this particular aesthetic. There are doors and windows that will never open for her for the very same reason she keeps hers closed..bless her blind ass heart.

I had no idea she was 23 and she sounds 19 and looks 30 bless her heart.

What came through the most for me from her statement was her wanting to go clubbing with girls she can pimp. Particularly because she specified that this was about going to the club and that she doesn't place these requirements on women she interacts with in other settings.

I feel anyone who paid to look a certain way, should keep their mouth shut when it comes to what's deemed "attractive"

Aside from her not checking the boxes on her own aesthetic requirements; I think so many people's issue with her comments were that she looks like an every woman. She looks like girl girl from down the street. She's got local baddie looks even after the surgeries. We see her in the grocery store. So anyone who could have rallied around that was turned off by her comments.

Lmfao had no idea sis was 23…. . Wow she couldn’t advise me on not one thing not even her doc

The BBL the lashes, the small waist, the lace wigseveryone on social media that date a “rapper” seems to all look alike lol, the Instagram models all look alike; it’s crazy to me!

I take this personally bc I was the "ugly" girl growing up I didn't have popular clothing and beauty stuff I also didn't hang out bc my mom was strict I would constantly get ditch for more popular cooler girl and they would fall out with them and guess who they run back to the "sweet ugly" girl for comfort

I’d argue these women are less protected because they have to enter male dominated spaces to receive that validation and those resources. The men who seek this aesthetic are stereotypically adjacent to some sort of criminality. I’m out of syllables so I’ll end there.

“what they believe is generational wealth.” Whew, this the one I really want!

Such a trap. Never experienced this, but as a black man I can sympathize with the box you can get stuck in when you're living your life hypersensitive of the way other groups see you. For a lot of my life, I was obsessed with fitting the silhouette of a "proper" black person. Pants above the ass, hat worn proper, hair cut low all that. Until I realized that all I was doing was trying to be a "good n***er." for lack of a better word. It's a mire. At the risk of sounding contrived, Emitt Till was just that, right up until they beat him to death. RIP little man.

I saw a lady with a bbl in a store and it was really scary looking in person. Like usually women’s thighs are proportional to their butts, because the upper leg kind of supports the butt. This lady’s butt was way out there with nothing to support it and it kind of stressed be out I was expecting it to fall off or something,